Am I a subject of some kind of study?

Absolutely not. This is an understandable concern so I will explain why twofold and hope my explanation comforts you when seeking my services. First, all social scientists are expected to adhere to a set of ethical standards when conducting research on human subjects. These standards are actually quite similar to the rules of consent for sex! The researcher must always have the participants informed consent, the participant has the right to withdrawal participation at anytime, and the safety and wellbeing of the participant are the responsibility of the researcher. On a strictly personal level, I would find it extremely unethical to turn you into a study subject without your consent. On a professional level, all researchers are suppose to have approval by ethical review boards. These boards are typically hosted by an institution funding the study like a hospital or a university and they serve like a type of ‘insurance’. No researcher in their right mind would conduct a study without pre-approval from a board. Tip: if you’re ever approached to participate in a study ask to see their ethical board approval. Since I don’t have any, I’m not conducting a study. Easy as that! :)

If you are interested in participating in a study then please visit this section of Dr. Justin Lehmiller’s website.

Are you a therapist?

Again, absolutely not. Therapists are specially trained mental health care professionals equipped with providing care and coping mechanisms for a variety of life situations. It is a legally protected title in most of the world and understandably so, therapists offer an invaluable service to our society! Although I have been trained in similar fields, my skills are of a different set. You may indeed find my services to be of therapeutic value, and if you do then I’m really happy for you! But that alone does not certify my services for said moniker. I am, however, more than happy to work in conjunction with your therapist if you would like to get us in touch.

Why sexology?

I love sexology for one simple reason: due to the interdisciplinary nature of it. One can find sexuality in virtually every academic discipline out there. The arts? Check. Humanities? Check. Sciences? Check. Having that one reference point to string together knowledge is absolutely beautiful and not a day goes by where I’m not grateful for that.

What are your interests in sexology?

While I certainly love sexology for all it has to offer, I do love me some specifics. They are including but not limited to… clinical sexology, penology, sexual and reproductive health, psychophysiology, evolutionary psychology, medicine (neurology & endocrinology), bioethics, philosophy, psychoanalysis, paraphilia, and cross-cultural sexuality.

What is your research?

I do not divulge all of this information for the sake of privacy but I will say that I wrote my masters thesis on the psychophysiology of female sexual arousal and desire.

Can I please have a face pic?

Unfortunately, due to the nature of my research career, I cannot post or provide face pictures. Which is such a shame because I am consistently told it is one of my best features ;) For reference I am frequently told that my celebrity doppelgangers are Natalie Portman, Leighton Meester, and Eliza Dushku.

Do you have a wishlist?

Yes :) You can check it out here: https://cleoharimsc.net/wishlist

With every gift I receive I send personalised pictures to the gentleman who gave it to me for his enjoyment and his enjoyment only.

Do you like to go on shopping trips?

So much so that I offer a special where if you take me shopping at a luxury boutique, then my time for that shopping trip comes free! I find this to be a fantastic ice breaker. We get to cozy up with each other while I feel pampered like the queen I am. After all, who doesn’t like a win-win? If you feel stuck on shopping ideas be sure to check out my wishlist.

Do you accept tips?

Tips are never expected but always appreciated.

What are the, y’know, fine details in order to secure a booking with you?

The following are only mildly inconvenient necessities for an unforgettable time together :)

Screening: All bookings require a screening process, the severity of this process depends on the country and legal climate (sorry ⁠— I don’t make the rules!). USA requires established providers and/or work screening. I am no stranger to NDAs, and more than happy to sign one (after my lawyer reads it of course). Alternatively if you would like one of my lawyers to draft an NDA for our rendezvous, do not hesitate to reach out.

Deposit: In order to secure our rendezvous I will need a 20% deposit. They are transferrable but non-refundable which can be used for another booking if canceled at least 48 hours in advanced. In the unfortunate event of a no show, cancellation fees are the full booking amount. My time is precious and to not show is a blatant disregard and disrespect of my time.

Longer engagements, FMTY, and travel companion: Dinner dates incorporate half social time and half of private time. Overnights follow a similar philosophy, of course with more discussion on our planning beforehand. Full donation incurs if canceled within 72 hours. I relish in FMTY and being your travel companion. To ensure the best experience for all parties involved travel insurance is always necessary should an emergency occur, travel courtesies always apply (bespoke to each FMTY) with a 50% deposit. I only travel business or first class. If I am not paid in the local currency there should be sufficient padding for conversion. As a baseline, I require 7 hours uninterrupted beauty sleep. Understandably, I expect a gent to take care of me during long engagements. This includes, but is not limited to, providing for me in extreme weather conditions, last minute plan changes, ensuring I’m fed to keep the energy of our passion going etc.

Outfit (among other) requests: I genuinely enjoy getting dolled up to the fantasy that a gent has in store. While I am more than happy to accommodate outfit requests, if they are items I do not already own then you are to send me a gift card or Venmo to get the outfit beforehand. In the event that you want me to provide toys that I do not already own in my treasure chest, that comes on your behalf and is included in the deposit. The same philosophy for other items that will enhance the experience of our rendezvous.

Duos, couples, and group fun: I am happy to accommodate couples, and these rendezvous start at 2 hours with a 50% added to the paperwork. I will need to speak to both parties involved to ensure optimal fun. I have a wonderful selection of good (no, great) friends to choose from, and for duos we paperwork match to premium level. Group fun are bespoke experiences and please enquire for more info. As the same when together, I expect that we maintain safe practices with our fun additionals. Consent is sexy! And caring about my safety and comfort, as well as your your own, can only lead to optimal pleasure for all parties involved.

Last minute requests: I fully understand that we all live busy lives and some of these lives only allow us indulgences on the fly. Therefore, I try my hardest to be accommodating to last-minute booking requests. However, I too have other obligations such as research or conferences. Thus, I maintain a $100 last-minute booking fee at my discretion if a rendezvous is made less than 24 hours in advanced for The U.S. In Europe this applies as €100 if I am on tour within 24 hours. €500-1000 in Paris within the week. A last minute FMTY, (>1 week) incurs a 1000 rush hour fee regardless of geographic location.

Incalls: In NYC and Paris, and occasionally also in SF, incall bookings require a $200 courtesy. I always endeavour to provide an incall in all the cities (and countries) I have fun in. However, a blanket incall inclusive policy is not realistic and I therefore hold the right to ask for my incall courtesy in other places as well.

Etc.: For first time clientele, I require a 90 minute rendezvous so we can develop our chemistry organically.

I exclusively do party bookings with well-established clientele. If you enter a booking having already partied, or decide to party in the bathroom, I reserve every right to end the rendezvous with no refund. Naturally I am to be treated with the utmost respect (with my reciprocation of course). Should a slip up happen on your part during our rendezvous process I reserve the right to charge an inconvenience fee. It is imperative that I feel as stress free as possible throughout our time before, together, and after so as to ensure the highest levels of enjoyment. Anything that may get in the way of that interrupts our ability to truly have fun and live out our most authentic hedonistic desires.